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When Parents Become the Enemy: The Disturbing Rise of Child Neglect Cases

Last November, a tragic incident shook Malaysia – a two-year-old toddler died after being left in a car for more than seven hours. The mother, in her 30s, had stopped to run errands, forgetting her child was still strapped in the backseat. By the time she realised her mistake, it was too late[1].

A simple lapse. An irreversible tragedy. A helpless child, trapped and alone.

While some cases of child neglect stem from absentmindedness, others reveal a much darker reality. Take the case of a seven-year-old boy who was found naked and locked in a toilet in Taman Pulai Jaya. Starved and malnourished, he had been left for months by his father and his father’s girlfriend. 

If not for a concerned neighbour who reported the situation, he might not have survived. In October 2023, the duo, R. Thayalan and K. Mageswari pleaded guilty under Section 31(1)(a) of the Child Act 2001, facing up to RM50,000 in fines and a 20-year prison sentence[2].

R. Thayalan and K. Mageswari pleaded guilty under Section 31(1)(a) of the Child Act 2001 in October 2023. Source: Berita Harian

When Parents Become the Perpetrators

Contrary to what many might assume, biological parents are often responsible for neglect. In 2023 alone, Malaysia’s Social Welfare Department reported that mothers accounted for 26% of child abuse cases (2,217 incidents), while fathers and other family members were behind over 50%. Parental neglect was the leading cause, followed by sexual abuse and cases influenced by a partner[3].

The numbers paint a grim picture, one that has remained disturbingly consistent over the years. Reports from The Star confirm that parental neglect continues to be one of the primary causes of child endangerment in Malaysia[4].

Understanding Child Neglect: More Than Just Forgetfulness

Child neglect is often misunderstood. While all abuse is harmful, neglect differs in that it involves inaction rather than direct harm[5]

The National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC) states that neglect is the most common form of child abuse, occurring when caregivers fail to meet a child’s basic needs, such as food, shelter, education, and medical care[6].

In Malaysia, the Child Act 2001 provides legal grounds for intervention when a child is:[7,8]

– Physically, emotionally, or sexually abused

– Denied basic needs such as food, shelter, and education

– Abandoned or left unsupervised for long periods

– Living in unsafe conditions

– Neglected in terms of healthcare

– Exploited for illegal activities such as begging or gambling

Legal Consequences for Neglectful Guardians

Parental factors such as drug addiction, alcoholism, or mental health issues often contribute to child neglect. While laws exist to protect children, early recognition of neglect is key to preventing long-term harm.

Under Section 31(1)(a) of the Child Act 2001, parents or guardians who neglect their children face severe penalties:

– Fines up to RM50,000

– Imprisonment for up to 20 years

– Or both

Lawyer G.K. Ganesan Kasinathan highlighted in The Sun that authorities are taking a stricter stance against child neglect cases, pushing for harsher penalties against repeat offenders[9].

Recognising The Warning Signs 

Neglect can be difficult to detect, but persistent red flags often indicate deeper issues. The NSPCC identifies key signs, including:[6]

– Poor hygiene and appearance: Dirty clothing, constant hunger, or untreated nappy rash.

– Health and development problems: Frequent illnesses, malnutrition, extreme tiredness, or developmental delays.

– Unsafe living conditions: Being left alone for long periods or living in unsuitable housing.

– Behavioural changes: Withdrawn, aggressive, anxious, struggling in school, or showing signs of self-harm.

Neglectful caregivers may also appear emotionally distant, indifferent, or avoid leaving their child alone with others to hide signs of mistreatment.

What Leads To Child Neglect?

A five-year study by the Pediatrics Department of Hospital Serdang on suspected child abuse and neglect (SCAN) cases found that 93% of neglect victims were under five years old and in most cases, their biological parents were responsible. The study further revealed:[10]

– 58% of neglect cases were due to poor supervision or inadequate parenting skills.

– Economic hardship and unstable family environments played a major role.

– Children from low-income households had limited access to healthcare, education, and stable homes.

Beyond negligence, economic stressors also contribute to child abuse. According to the department, financial hardship can lead to heightened domestic tensions, sometimes resulting in violence toward children.

Families living in big cities with small incomes struggle to make ends meet. With the rising cost of living, families are under pressure to earn more income to raise their children. However, this situation is very sad because children should not be treated in such a way, at an age where they still need love and protection. Social Welfare Department[3,11]

Grave Data On Child Neglect

Source: Emir Research

Child neglect remains a serious issue in Malaysia, with thousands of children needing care and protection each year. The latest data in 2023 highlights troubling gender disparities and regional variations, reinforcing the urgency for stronger child protection laws.

8,536 children were reported in need of protection.

63.5% were female (5,418 cases), while 36.5% were male (3,118 cases).

– States with the highest cases:

  • Selangor – 1,652 cases (highest in Malaysia)
  • Kuala Lumpur – 1,047 cases
  • Sabah – 954 cases (highest in East Malaysia)
  • Johor – 908 cases
  • Kedah – 523 cases

Overall, girls are significantly more vulnerable to child abuse and neglect, with more than half requiring protection in 2023.

Selangor recorded the highest number of cases, likely due to its large population and urban challenges, while Sabah had a notably high number of female cases (760)[11].

Take Action: How You Can Help 

If you suspect a child is being neglected, take action. Reports can be made at any police station, Social Welfare Department office, or hospital, or by calling the Kasih 15999 Helpline.[12] 

Under the 2001 Child Act, household members are legally required to report abuse within their homes, and public reports are critical in protecting at-risk children.

Changemakers Fighting Child Neglect 

Child neglect isn’t just a statistic, it’s a crisis affecting thousands of children across Malaysia. Recognising the signs and taking action can save lives. Communities must step up, speak out, and support organisations that protect vulnerable children. Here are some changemakers on the ground: 

SUKA Society is committed to safeguarding the best interests of children by providing fair treatment to those in crisis, including trafficked children and those in detention. Their approach is twofold: preventative measures to minimize harm, and reactive steps to address reported abuse.

Protect and Save the Children stands out as the only Malaysian organisation solely focused on preventing child sexual abuse. They work to raise awareness, provide education, and offer critical support to survivors. Their mission includes advocating for policy changes to better protect children from sexual violence and exploitation.

Malaysian Council for Child Welfare (MCCW) and Good Shepherd Services provide vital services such as shelters for abandoned children and crisis support for women and girls. These organisations not only offer immediate care but also engage in advocacy and address broader issues like human trafficking and child exploitation.

Together, these changemakers are making significant strides in combating child neglect and ensuring a safer future for Malaysia’s children.

Explore our sources:

  1. V. Rakshika.(2024). Another toddler in Malaysia dies after busy mother left her in car for over 7 hours. The Straits Times. Link
  2. R. Nordin (2023). Duo face 20 years in jail for neglecting child, causing malnutrition. The Star. Link
  3. D. Pfordten. (2024). Multimedia: Child neglect and abuse on the rise in Malaysia. The Star. Link
  4. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2024). Preventing child abuse and neglect. U.S. Department of Health & Human Services. Link
  5. A. Murnan. (2023). Neglect vs. abuse: What is the difference? Medical News Today. Link
  6. Nspcc. (n.d.). Neglect. NSPCC. Link
  7. Anti-Slavery Law. (n.d.). Malaysia Child Act 2001 (Act 611). Link 
  8. Mygov. The government of Malaysia’s Official Portal. (n.d.). Child Abandonment & Abuse. MyGOV. Link
  9. Q. Rashidi (2024). Call to hold parents, guardians liable for actions of children. The Sun. Link
  10. V. Prabhakaran, R. Borhan, F. Rafdi. (2020). Suspected child abuse and neglect cases in a single tertiary hospital in Malaysia: A 5-year retrospective study. Medical Journal of Malaysia, 75(5). Link
  11. Department of Social Welfare. (2023). Department of Social Welfare Statistics Report 2023. Link
  12. Ministry of Women, Family and Community Development (2013). Child Protection System In Malaysia – An Analysis of the System for Prevention and Response to Abuse, Violence and Exploitation against Children Link 

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